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Betsy's avatar

An extraordinary person. I am so very sorry for your loss💖

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Thank you Betsy 💗

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Shonelle's avatar

What a beautiful tribute. It's clear her legacy lives on through your work, as well as the impact she made in the community. Sending all my loving condolences to you and your family.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Shonelle thank you

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Lorna Solomon Oyarce's avatar

Such an inspired and inspiring woman. I love how clear minded she was. Fostering education for all and caring for others, especially the marginalized - she was ahead of her time. Thank you for sharing this. And thank you for living your life by her example.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

She really was ahead of her time. Thank you for your kind words.

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Kim swig's avatar

What a wonderful way to honor your mom by sharing her life story with the rest of us. No doubt she was incredibly proud of you!❤️

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Thank you Kim. Someone should make a movie about her. This little white girl who grew up poor, and endured abuse, in Northern England, who in 1962 at age 22 moved to West Africa of all places to teach, and fell in love with a tall dark African American twice her age who was a single father of four teenagers. Who does that? Well I'm glad she did because that's the only way I got here!

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Marisol Muñoz-Kiehne's avatar

A true trailblazer,

turned torches on where she trod.

Teachers toil in truth.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Thanks for the Haiku, Marisol 💗

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lori baris's avatar

This was an extraordinary tribute to an extraordinary woman. Julie, you are truly lucky to have had her as your mom. I’m sure she was so proud of you!

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

We all want our parents to be proud, don't we? Thank you for saying that.

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Susan Forster's avatar

What a beautiful tribute to your extraordinary mother.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Thank you Susan

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Dr. Haydee Montenegro's avatar

The passing of a such accomplished person is always sad, but her life would keep inspiring other generations, as I can see from the work of her descendants.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Nice, Haydee, I appreciate it.

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Susanne's avatar

What a lovely tribute you've written for your remarkable mother. She lived an extraordinary life that honored people and intellectual curiosity. I know she inspired her students, community and children. She's left a wonderful legacy. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

So kind of you - thank you Susanne.

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Michelle Lemmon's avatar

This was a wonderful tribute to your mother.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Thanks, Michelle I appreciate it

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Emily S's avatar

Beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Thanks for reading it Emily!

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Maureen Sharon's avatar

Thank you for sharing your incredible Mom! What a beautiful, fulfilling, giving life! She continues to inspire.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Yes yes yes Maureen, thank you for getting the gist of her!

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Julie's avatar

What an amazing life she led! I'm hoping that your wonderful memories of her bring you peace and comfort.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Sharing helps 💗

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Rachel's avatar

Beautiful, Julie. Just as she was in all that she did. And thank you for adding that photo from our 1974 RCDS yearbook. Jeannie will always be that badass woman to me!

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Rachel, I should have asked permission from .... someone... but forgot. In any event, thank YOU for resurfacing it. She was a badass before anyone used the term!

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Rachel's avatar

NOT AT ALL! We're flattered.Just sayin', I WAS the editor of said yearbook 🥰.

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Darcy Huston's avatar

Beautiful tribute you wrote for your mom! Such remarkable accomplishments and she leaves a wonderful legacy. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.

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Julie Lythcott-Haims's avatar

Thanks for your kindness, Darcy!

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Daryl Miller's avatar

Amazing. What an extraordinary life and an encouraging tribute.

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