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Deborah Goldeen's avatar

Your writing makes me feel like I experienced that event myself. That’s a special and enlightening experience.

No, I would NOT have called 911 either. A lot of that has to do with whether or not you get someone reasonably competent at dispatch is a crap shoot. They can cope with full blown emergency, but anything else is hit and miss.

When there is not much else to do, be kind. That is what you did. It is, in and of itself, a gift. Or that’s my feeling about it.

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Jayne Chapman's avatar

I would have walked over to her and had my phone where it couldn't be seen in case - I like to think I would have given her a ride - I would have to have lived this to be sure.

As far as topics that you mentioned - I have written a memoir dedicated to those who have been sexually abused. I would like to see this topic added to your list - I'm hoping, when I give talks about my book, where I will say that the shame always belongs to the abuser, it will open some up to share. I had two speak after my first talk a few weeks ago- one came up to me privately and left before I could speak to her. I immediately went home and had cards made with my name and phone number to give out to those who share privately. I'm not a therapist and would gently suggest that to anyone who is still stuck in their abuse.

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