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Beth's avatar

I had quite literally just put Gail Sheehy’s book on caregiving away because “I didn’t need it yet” when my mom tripped over a cord and fell for the second time in a month. The fourth tone in three months she broke her foot and now I don’t have time to read that book because I have fallen down the rabbit hole you so poignantly describe. Fortunately my mom is quite alert and together, but being stuck in bed for weeks is tough. Our visiting carers let me go to work without worry, and I am grateful for their support and the gentleness they show my parents.

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Kerry's avatar

I take care of my mom, who is 85. I'm very fortunate, since she is still very cognizant and aware the vast majority of the time, and a lot of fun to be with. But her physical limitations are increasing and there are definitely episodes where she gets confused, and therefore a little belligerent or "stuck." The aspects of trying to facilitate a person's social life and connections are especially poignant.

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